A pleasant number of men imagine secretly about ; some as aggressors, and others as martyrs. We feel greatly confused by those fantasies. They make no sense to us on a conscious layer, because no 1 wants to be without a doubt harmed. Despite that, in the symbolic world, to be “taken” by another might communicate a reassurance to one who believes fellow is profoundly unwanted. In fantasy, being might mean the opposite: that contrary to his fears, lad is, beyond the shadow of a doubt, so incredibly desired this another simply can’t help himself and will even employ if necessary in order to have him.
Thus, fantasy states both the problem and the solution to our fears. We need to viscerally feel wanted. And perhaps in our daily lives, we have built up tremendous walls to others, unable to feel the want and potential for connection this is all around us. Those walls may require a psychological to come down. We carry the tools within us; we need merely look deeply within ourselves and construct the lives that call us into better expression.

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